Teenage Problems and High School Dilemmas

[FloydtheBarber]

You probably would want to tear it up and throw it away. Looks very desperate. Believe me, I know a lot about desperate.

I don't care.. I want her to read it. I told her also about why I broke up with her exactly, I don't think she ever knew the full reason...

[President]

Wrong move FTB

I know its not very optimistic, but all i can see is she being better at talking people down by screaming at them

I sort of lied before

She's the only one who can make me depressed

She's like my evil side! What a *****

[ragecage]

I don't care.. I want her to read it. I told her also about why I broke up with her exactly, I don't think she ever knew the full reason...

They usually dont care why you broke up with them, its just the fact you did its very hurtful to them and they dont want to talk about it. They open up to you and when you hurt them, most girls have trouble being persuaded to open their hearts for you again.

[FloydtheBarber]

Wrong move FTB

I know its not very optimistic, but all i can see is she being better at talking people down by screaming at them

I sort of lied before

She's the only one who can make me depressed

Eh, I needed to say all that I said. Because I want her to know it. How she responds, that is all up to her. I HOPE she will want to be together again. But I can't make her. I can't even be sure she will read it all. And if it was a wrong move, I will learn from it I guess.

[President]

It's a wrong move because I did that with another friend, to a much lesser extent (i just told her straight out)

Made her feel like ****

[free2131]

I know that it doesn't seem like it now, and I know that this doesn't help anything, but in about 10 years, you guys will look back at these "problems" and laugh about how simplistic life was.

[FloydtheBarber]

It's a wrong move because I did that with another friend, to a much lesser extent (i just told her straight out)

Made her feel like ****

Well, i will find out i guess, and just hope it works. If not, i know it is truly time to move on, because I poured my heart into it, and if she does not like it then she is obviously not the right person for me, i guess. I will be upset, but I think if she says no to this I will FINALLY be able to move past her, because I really have no ****ing idea what i could do to get her back if this does not work.

[President]

Already at that stage

Just didn't experience real world yet

[FloydtheBarber]

I know that it doesn't seem like it now, and I know that this doesn't help anything, but in about 10 years, you guys will look back at these "problems" and laugh about how simplistic life was.

Probably, but the future is the future and now is now, and I am living in now, not the future. And in "now" this is something that has meaning to me.

[free2131]

Probably, but the future is the future and now is now, and I am living in now, not the future. And in "now" this is something that has meaning to me.

Yeah, I didn't mean that to say that what you are going through isn't important to you, but you will be amazed at how much your priorities change and how what things that seem important to you now will seem so trivial in the future.

[free2131]

Besides, from what I have read (i.e. very little) your GF lives in another country, and you haven't seen her in person much if at all. Those type of relationships hardly ever work out, especially with how young you are. She will go out, meet new people, realize that those people are more readily available, and probably choose to be with them for the simply reason of convenience. The same was likely going to happen with you sooner or later as well.

That doesn't make her or you a bad person, just a normal human being. IMO, I think it's better for you to date someone close to you so you could have a more meaningful relationship (and honestly, I wouldn't do anything more than just date around until college if I were you).

Trust me, I've been in similar situations as yours, and having had the life experiences that I've had, it works out better in the end. More than likely, though, you will just have to experience that for yourself.

[OregonDuck1989]

Suicide, divorce, cheating, stealing, parents, depressing, and emo were also possible tags.


Feel depressed? Listen to John Mayer.

John Mayer is the shiz.


I'm gonna find anootthhherrr youuuu

[President]

8 in the morning and and I woke up to my best friend screaming in my ear to wake up

Anyone know a way to shut girls up without money; clothes; jewelry?

[FloydtheBarber]

Besides, from what I have read (i.e. very little) your GF lives in another country, and you haven't seen her in person much if at all. Those type of relationships hardly ever work out, especially with how young you are. She will go out, meet new people, realize that those people are more readily available, and probably choose to be with them for the simply reason of convenience. The same was likely going to happen with you sooner or later as well.

That doesn't make her or you a bad person, just a normal human being. IMO, I think it's better for you to date someone close to you so you could have a more meaningful relationship (and honestly, I wouldn't do anything more than just date around until college if I were you).

Trust me, I've been in similar situations as yours, and having had the life experiences that I've had, it works out better in the end. More than likely, though, you will just have to experience that for yourself.

Thanks for your advice, yes, you are correct, she does indeed live in another country (Poland). But I still love her a lot and she is an awesome person when she wants to be, and I have tried to not let distance tear us apart.

Unfortunately you are probably right, but at this point, when I have no way to even get out and meet anyone else for a while (I live in a small town, can't drive for a few months, and have been very ill) I guess there is no reason not to continue to pursue her, maybe. It is complex, I woke up today and decided the message was probably not the best thing, but it is sent, and done. I will have to see what happens. I will also keep open to other girls unless she replies yes first (Which may not be for a while, I believe she is returning to her mom's, with no internet, today.

I do feel more for my best friend, I can say that much. I am just afraid to let her know, even though knowing her as i do, she would not be angry with me if she did not feel the same. I have built up the courage to tell her, but have been unable to talk to her for about a week, she has been busy because of New Years.

[metsguy234]

James, didn't you say she has another boyfriend now? Or is my memory failing me? I could've sworn you told me something to that effect.